Saturday, February 16, 2019

Paul and the Golden Rule—Philippians 2:1-4


In our last study we saw Paul exhorting the Philippian church to walk as citizens of heaven—to live their lives in a way that reflects Christ and His gospel.  We come now to his explanation of what that walk should look like in chapter 2.  How are we supposed to walk?  What sort of life reflects the faith of the gospel?  What does a citizen of heaven look like?

Are You Christians Also Encouragers? Philippians 2:1

Paul is asking the Philippians whether their lives as Christians demonstrate encouragement, love, and spiritual connection to one another, as well as empathy and caring.  In 1:9 he already told them that he longed for them that their love would increasingly abound in knowledge and insight concerning what is best.  He connected this seemingly very subjective activity (loving) with a very objective result (discerning what is best).  This, then, is a love that is informed and looks to the best interests of others.  And now he is asking, “Has having Christ’s eternal life made any difference in your concern for others?”  Since this is not an automatic result of having eternal life, this is not a rhetorical question.  We begin to get a glimpse now of what “walking worthy” and “living as citizens of heaven” means.

Every one of these diagnostic questions in verse 1 is designed to look at their connection to other people.  As human beings we automatically try to encourage ourselves and do positive self-talk.  We don’t have to be taught to love ourselves.  We talk to ourselves all the time.  We are born doting on ourselves.  It’s natural.  But Paul is talking here about how we relate to others. We don’t connect to one another automatically.  It requires knowledge and insight into what is “best.”  The gospel is not just for me.  It is for the whole world.  God doesn’t just love me.  He “so loved the world.”  So, Paul’s question here might sound ironic.  But it should make us stop and think.  “Hey.  Are you Christians also encouragers?”  “Do you really care about each other?”

Why Can’t We All Just Get Along? Philippians 2:2

One of the most trying things for a parent is seeing your children not getting along with each other. Paul was thrilled that the Philippians had become believers and had also enthusiastically helped him financially.  But apparently one thing made Paul’s heart continue to ache for his children in the faith.  They had an attitude problem and did not get along with each other as citizens of heaven and brothers and sisters in Christ should do.

Paul’s joy over their reception of the gospel was somewhat choked by their divisive attitudes.  They were concerned for the lost world “out there” but their own local brothers and sisters – not so much.  There’s an old poem by an unknown author that says, “To dwell above with saints we love—oh that will be glory!  But to dwell below with saints we know—well that’s another story!”  This is the same problem they had in Corinth.  Why do so many Christians struggle with that?

Paul connects four issues here: attitude, love, harmony, and purpose.  They all concern living with other people.  They had been redeemed as individuals and they delighted in it.  But they also needed to know that they are part of a redeemed team of people that has one overarching purpose.  They needed to work together and care about one another “right here” just as they claimed to love the world “out there.”  What was the problem?

From Conceit to Humility Philippians 2:3

The problem was that they, like everyone else, were wrapped up in looking out for number one.  Paul is talking about motives of the heart.  We do make time for other people—naturally.  But, for the most part, this is because of their importance to us. We are born manipulating people by being “nice” to them.  If we are really honest, we often do this because there is something we hope to gain.  But, so often we ignore others who don’t seem to have anything to offer.  This is natural.  It’s the way we were born.  But Paul is pointing out that this motivation arising from our perception of selfish gain needs to change.  Citizens of heaven are motivated by the needs of others—not just my own desires.  So, when the Bible talks about “denying yourself” and “dying to self” this is part of what it means.  This is called humility. It views me as a servant of others. In fact, Paul exhorts the Philippians (and us) to consider “one another as more important than yourself (NET).”  But won’t they take advantage of me?

Paul’s Golden Rule Philippians 2:4

Notice that in this self-denial we do not erase our identity.  There remains a reference point of who we are.  If we are to completely die and be absolutely nothing, then how can we consider another person more important than ourselves—if we don’t exist any longer?  Verse 4 says, “Each of you should be concerned not only about your own interests, but about the interests of others as well (NET).”  We will continue to look out for own interests, but, as a priority, we look out for the interests of others.  Jesus’ “golden rule” exhorts us to “Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.”  So, we do not disappear.  Rather, we re-emerge as servants of the needs of others, partly by referencing our own needs.  This is like Jesus’ second greatest commandment to “love your neighbor as yourself.” 

Now some take this a bit too far and say that in order to obey Jesus, we first have to learn to love ourselves. The fact is, even the most twisted and tortured minds love themselves deeply though perhaps not very thoughtfully.  Again, that’s where discernment and insight are needed. We already love ourselves.  We need to learn to love others even better.  If you and I have a need—maybe someone else does, too. So, we add others to our personal concerns.

There may be some disconnect between what others think is in their best interests and what we may think.  Again, this goes back to Paul’s prayer for insight into what is best.  But here, the starting point is our motivation.  We might need to pray for wisdom but first we need to pray for our heart to be just as concerned for others as it is concerned for our own needs.  That’s where it begins.

In our next study Paul will hold out Christ’s own example of this concern for others.

© Eric Thimell 2018

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